Does liking pegging make you gay?

Does liking pegging make you gay?

If you've ever stumbled upon the term "pegging" and wondered whether it's got anything to do with homosexual tendencies, you're not alone. Nothing wrong with a bit of bloke on bloke action by the way… if that’s what you’re into.

First things first, let's define the term. Pegging is essentially an activity where someone with a vagina uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate their partner with a fake penis. It's a role-reversal of sorts.

Sexual orientation and sexual activities aren't always as tightly intertwined as we might think. Pegging, much like any other sexual activity, doesn't define or determine a person's sexual orientation. It's all about personal preferences and what floats your boat (or strap-on, in this case).

So no, pegging does not make you gay in the slightest.  

Society's perception of masculinity and vulnerability certainly play a role in what people think about pegging. It’s not secret men generally take a more dominant role in the bedroom, so the idea of such a submissive act generally will get our backs against the wall. Like anything, this needs to be given some proper thought before casting judgement…

We guess what we’re saying is that the reason you don’t want to do it is because you don’t want a massive shaft in your arse, not because it’s gay. And that super fair!

While it’s not for everyone, we have a group of 300k blokes - so statistics say a few of you legends will love it. Don’t be afraid to have a chat with the misso because honesty in the bedroom goes a long way!

Head over to the Blokes Advice Facebook Group and share a laugh with 1/4 million Aussie guys who share your humour.

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