Busting Early? What's normal & what can you change

Busting Early? What's normal & what can you change

First cab off the rank, let's clear the air - there's no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Every man and his dog is different and has their own beat in the sack. Some blokes can last all night, while others can barely make it past the opening credits. But don't stress, there's no right or wrong way to do the deed.

A member recently posed a question to the Blokes Advice Facebook Group about the little elephant in the room:

"Ok fellas how long do you guys actually last in bed? I know prem ejaculation is something that effects 1 in 3 men but I reckon it’s more! give your honest answers! And what remedies do people use or techniques 😅" ~ said the BA member who has no problems pleasing his lover.

As one could expect, hundreds of blokes through their 2 cents in on this topic. We can't say maturity levels were at an all-time high, but there certainly funny lines, good tips, and cheeky stories.

See the OG post in Blokes Advice HERE

Now, let's have a gander at some popular myths and misconceptions about how long blokes should last. Some folk reckon that the longer you last, the better the experience is for your sheila. However, this couldn't be further from the truth. In fact, some studies have shown that the average length of sexual intercourse is just 5-7 minutes. So, if you're a bloke who lasts 10 minutes, you're already ahead of the pack!

Another myth is that blokes who can last longer are better at the horizontal hula. This is simply not true. The most important thing in the boudoir is making sure that both partners are having a good time. It doesn't matter if you last 5 minutes or 50 minutes, as long as you're both happy and satisfied, that's all that matters.

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So, the next time you're feeling a bit rough around the edges about your performance in the sack, remember that it's all about having a good time and enjoying each other's company. And if you're really looking to up your game, try incorporating some humor into the mix. After all, laughter is the best form of foreplay!

In conclusion, there's no set amount of time that blokes should last in the boudoir. Just focus on having a good time and making sure your sheila is satisfied, and you'll be as right as rain. Happy lovin'!

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